This may be the most enjoyable blog I
ever get to write because I get to thank, tell a story or two, toss in some
timeline pics, and generally brag a lot about the most incredible person I know
in anticipation of her 30th birthday. Yes, on April 17th, midnight
tonight my wife is finally moving out of the spring chicken and into that
middle aged hottie phase. My wife and I don’t really do the gifting thing and
so I will try to use this medium as a way of showing Cat what she means to me.
I wanted to start by telling a story or two about a few of the events that have
shaped our last ten years together.
In the Fall of 2002 I was playing golf at Walkingstick and Cat was along
for the walk (this was while we were just dating), I was telling her that
usually this time of the year we see tarantulas crawling all over the golf
course and how cool it would be if a person was not be terrified by them, let
one crawl on their back and then walk up to someone else and start talking to
them, and then watch the reaction of the person as they see it crawl over their
shoulder and they *oop themselves. Cat sang “she wasn’t scared of spiders or
snakes” and then said she really wasn’t scared and that she would let one crawl
on her if we saw one and I was like, no way. A few weeks later Cat, Brandon,
Zack and I went up to Beaver creek to hang out and play in the water. As the
late afternoon started to cool us down and we got back to the car, Cat and the
kids took their shoes off because they were soaked and getting chilled. We
started driving out of the canyon on the dirt road I could see something up
ahead that looked like it might be a medium sized rodent but as we neared I
could see it was the most gigantic tarantula I had ever seen. Trying to be
funny I stopped the car and told Cat to get out and show us that she was tough
enough to play with the monstrosity. She said sure and went ahead and jumped
out with Brandon following her. Cat walked up and bent over and tried brushing
the tarantula on to her hand. The spider reared up and lunged at her and just
barely caught her sock as she jumped out of the way. Brandon had shot back into
the car and locked the doors before Cat had even hit the ground. At this point
we figured she was done but Cat was not going to let that spider make a fool
out of her. She knelt back down and brushed the spider onto her hand and
started to walk over to the car to show us. At this point I rolled up all the
windows and triple checked to make sure the doors were locked. Cat stood
outside my door playing with that tarantula for what seemed like an eternity
and had the most incredible grin on her face, the grin could only be rivaled by
the one Paul Newman had after eating the 50 eggs in Cool Hand Luke. It was a
grin that I will never forget and the go to vision when we are away from each
other for any extended period of time. As we were driving back to P-town that
day, I looked at her and realized how incredibly special she really was.
Shortly after we were married Cat expressed
her interest in joining one of my fishing adventures so we decided to head up
to Grape creek to camp a night and fish. The first evening we were there, Cat
caught a small brown on a spinner and I got skunked. And believe me, if you
think I pick on Cat when I out fish her, I am still trying to get even from the
things she said to me that night. We didn’t sleep very well that night because
we had two bears around the van all night, but the next morning we got an early
start and headed up the creek. We were up a mile or so and I found this nice
bend with an undercut bank and started tossing a Hopper to the inside seem. Every
cast and the little bows were taking it like they were starved. I knew Cat grew
up bait fishing and had never really seen what flyfishing was all about so I
called her over and told her to watch and as the next cast hit the water
another rainbow came up an destroyed the hopper. I looked back at Cat and her
eyes were bulging and her jaw had dropped about 4 inches, she looked as if she
had just had a face to face with Jesus himself. Cat spent the rest of the day
in a daze with the images of rising fish streaming through her mind. The next
day we went to the flyshop and bought Cat’s first set up and she has not looked
back since.
The last ten years have been the most incredible years of my life and I
owe so much of it to my wonderful wife Cat. If I tried writing about all the
ways Cat has impacted my life I think I would crash my computer from TMI. I am
lucky enough to have this medium to share my gratitude for her on her birthday.
Cats 30th birthday is tomorrow on the 17th and I will add
some pics from our lives together and some from when she was younger, some are
not as flattering as others but hopefully they paint a great picture of Cat’s
life. Cat’s schedule at the shop will be a little strange this week because she
will be out of town celebrating her b-day this weekend. I have heard so many
stories over the years as to how Cat has positively affected different people’s
lives and I think the comment section of this blog is a great place to relay
b-day wishes and even better, short stories as to what Cat has meant to you and
I hope we crash the comment section of this blog from so many thanks. I will
always be grateful for the time I get with Cat and hope the next thirty years
will be awesome for her as well!!! As always, thanks for reading..Connell, 30
year old Cat, Winston and The Drift Fly shop……..
Happy Birthday to a very special girl! You have certainly impacted my life, friendship and most recently helping my daughter get started fly fishing! See my post of her and David holding hands crossing the Ark. Have a great day and Thanks again for everything. Oh yeah, finally joined the club, over 30 that is!
ReplyDeleteJoe "The Motorman"
Happy Birthday Cat!!!!! Hope you have great b-day. Thank you for all your help and tips and friendship for the rookie fly fisherman here......LOL. You are a great teacher. Without you all at he shop, I still would be lost. Thanks again!!!
ReplyDeleteSincerely.........Alfonso
Happy birthday to a wonderful person. Cat has always been so helpful and nice in the shop. It really makes for a nice experience. I hope you have a amazing birthday you definitely deserve it!
ReplyDeleteDj
Happy Birthday Miss Cat. You are always a pleasure and very helpful in the shop. Winston is lucky to have you as his Mom. Tucker and I really enjoy your blog.
ReplyDeleteGary and Tucker